BROKEN


By his side he wanted me to stay,
And now he's pushing me away…
He's saying: "Please Leave",
Something I don't want to believe…
He used to wipe my tears,
And take away all my fears…
But now he's saying: "FORGET",
That it's a decision we won't regret…

Throughout all the seven years,
He encouraged me that things will be fine,
Now he said we'll go back to the FRIENDSHIP LINE !
He used to hug me and keep me strong,
Now to "Love" he said we can't belong…

He used to fight the whole world for me,
Now.. "My lover" he can no longer be…
He used to cure my heart,
He wants us now to stay apart…

He used to bring my soul back to life,
But without him now, how will I survive?
He used to take away all the pain,
But now, we can't repeat our old days again…

He used to be my shoulder to cry on,
I don't think without him I can go on…
Seven years with him were great,
But we never know or decide our fate…
We used to be all time together,
Now, we know it can't last forever…
We held hands in war and in peace,
Now, seeing his smile is the only thing I seize…
Our unique story is so amazing,
But now our situation became frustrating…

He's the guy, who opened my eyes,
To things in life I couldn't realize…
That's why I wish him the best of luck,
In this love, we should no longer be stuck…
…So…
We'll try to continue the journey of life,
It's really hard, but we can survive…

Best Friends Forever

As the years pass
And we grow apart,
I want you to know
That you're in my heart…

You helped me with problems
Through things good and bad
You helped me keep smiling
Whenever I was sad…

You helped me with guys,
You made me stay strong…
How will I live
If you would be gone?

And where the years take us
No place is too far…
We will think of each other
Wherever we are…

You're a wonderful person
To you, this poem I send…
Just want you to know:
You're a really great friend…

                                                Written by : Bissan Zayyat/ Feb 2007
                                                Dedicated to : Mahmoud Yassin

May 2008 A report on "Eleven Minutes"

Paulo Coelho's book "Eleven Minutes", "HarperCollins Publishers", first published in English 2003, the edition is published 2004, is one of his greatest novels he wrote through his years. It is considered one of the best sellers around the world.

The novel talks about Maria, a young girl from a Brazilian village, whose first innocent brushes with love leave her heartbroken. Her ambition and curiosity distinguish her from not only her colleagues but from everyone else in Geneva. She is the archetypal woman who has gone through the trysts of love, betrayal and confusion in her relationships. At a tender age, she becomes convinced that she will never find true love, instead believing that "Love is a terrible thing that will make you suffer . . ." A chance meeting in Rio takes her to Geneva, where she dreams of finding fame and fortune. Instead, she ends up working as a prostitute. In Geneva, Maria drifts further and further away from love as she develops a fascination with sex. Throughout her career as a prostitute, she gets the chance to experience with a vast variety of men – clients. Those experiences confirm her early convention of the non-existence of true love, and push her more and more towards sole physical pleasure. Eventually, Maria's despairing view of love is put to the test when she meets Ralf, a handsome young painter. She falls in love with him and he loves her for her soul and heart and not for her body… Finally, she finds someone who is interested in her as a person and not as a body. In this odyssey of self-discovery, Maria began to feel what love is, her ideas changed, her feelings changes; she finds true love, after thinking that love is only found for hurt… Now, Maria has to choose between pursuing a path of darkness, sexual pleasure for its own sake, or risking everything to find her own "inner light" and the possibility of sacred sex, sex in the context of love.

One of my reactions to the book was that Coelho is trying, through Maria's character, to present the other, human face of prostitutes. He tried to prove that choosing such a career is a fate, not a choice. Yet, Maria had all the freedom not to go this way but she simply chose it the old way – by inventing poverty then taking it as an excuse.

I think that Paulo's message (central to any Coelho novel) is slightly darker this time. All his books before this are very optimistic, almost overly so. His idea is to show that we find the light in our inner selves deep inside our hearts and our souls and not through our sensations and body pleasure…

I have also found while reading the novel that Paulo Coelho could transfer the real image of many young ladies in many societies… He could give us the real descriptions of the emotional and psychological state of Maria. This is what is found a lot in most societies. Thus, his book is

I would strongly advise people to read this novel, because this book has had a life-enhancing impact on millions of people including myself. People should know that love is not to be found in someone else, but in ourselves; we simply awaken it.

In conclusion, in this gripping and daring new novel, Paulo Coelho sensitively explores the sacred nature of sex and love and invites us to confront our own prejudices and demons and embrace our own "inner light."

Children Should Never be Hit

Whether parents should hit their children or not is a controversial issue that causes a lot of arguments among people in all societies. Many people are convinced that parents should hit their children believing that this is important in the process of raising children. However, Punishment is not only ineffective in the long run, it is also clearly unjust. Parents should never hit their children for many reasons. Hitting harms children physically, emotionally and psychologically. Children are human; they feel insecure and useless when they are beaten. When parents hit them, children would feel unwanted. Moreover, hitting might cause serious physical problems as children's bodies are small and fragile relative to punishing adults. In addition, children will never feel the love and warmth of their family if they are hit. Furthermore, childhood is a very special stage of life. As children grow, images of their childhood will not fade away and they will never ever forget the image of their parents hitting them. Also, hitting children teaches them to become hitters themselves. Because children learn through parental modeling, physical punishment gives the message that hitting is an appropriate way to express feelings and to solve problems. Thus, children who were beaten by their parents get aggressive with people as they grow up. Therefore, parents must understand that children should never be hit…

اعتقدوا أنها ماتت، لكنّها بقيت حيّة!

داليا حسين، شهيدة حية نـزفت دماً وألماً، وكان جسدها معبراً إلى حياة أشد قسوة على طفلة من حقها أن تمشي وتركض وتلعب وتلهو وتترنم. كانت داليا ما تزال طفلة في السادسة من عمرها تهوى الركض واللعب وكانت تلميذة مجتهدة تحب الرياضيات، لكن قذيفة اسرائيلية أصابتها في رأسها في آب 2006 وحولتها رغم سلسلة عمليات جراحية في لبنان وايطاليا، الى طفلة مقعدة وحرمتها النطق.

كان يوم الثّامن من آب 2006 حين أصيب المنزل الذّي هجّرت إليه عائلة داليا في الغازية بقذيفة أطلقتها البارجة الإسرائيلية. وكانت العائلة قد تركت منزلها في بلدة البازورية، قضاء صور، إلى منزل في بلدة الغازية ظنّا منها أن هذا يؤمن لها أكثر أمناً. كانت الجدّة تحضّر الطعام منتظرةً زوجها وأحفادها لجلب اللبن من الدكّان القريب من الساحة ومن إن وصلوا إلى باب المنزل حتى وقع المنزل على رؤوسهم جميعاً. أصيب عبدالله حسين (والد داليا) ومصطفى وفاطمة (أخوا داليا) وجدّاها بجروح واستشهدت داليا كما ظن الجميع. قالت عليا ديب (والدة داليا) : "ما ان عادوا الى المنزل حتى سقطت قذيفة اسرائيلية. شاهدت زوجي وابني مصطفى يصرخان والدماء تغطي وجهيهما فيما كانت داليا ملقاة على الارض بدون حراك وظن الجميع انها قتلت على الفور".

نقل المسعفون داليا الى مستشفى غسان حمود في مدينة صيدا وكانت موضوعة على نقّالة لإدخالها لبرّاد الموتى. خيّمت أجواء البكاء والحزن في العائلة على فقدان داليا إلّا أن خبراً وصلهم فجأةً "داليا ما زالت على قيد الحياة!"

كانت داليا ممددة وملفوفة بحرام من الصّوف حين صادف تواجد مصور لوكالة الصحافة الفرنسية محمود زيّات في المستشفى لتصوير الجثث والجرحي. إقترب من الشهيدة لالتقاط صورة لها. قال المصوّر: "لا ادري كيف أزيح الحرام ورأيت صدرها يعلو يهبط. كانت تتنفس" ، وأضاف "لم أصدق عيني ، إلتقطت صورة لها وناديت الأطباء لأقول لهم أنها ما تزال حية."

نقلت داليا على الفور إلى العناية الفائقة لخطورة إصابتها، وبقيت غائبة عن الوعي عشرة ايام وأمضت ما يقارب الشهرين في العناية المركزة. وفي هذه الفترة كانت العائلة تنادي داليا ولا أحد يجيب. كانت داليا مصابة إصابة بليغة في رأسها طاولت مباشرة دماغها. وقد قال الأطباء أن إحتمال بقائها على قيد الحياة لا يتعدى نسبة واحد بالمئة.

خضعت داليا لسلسلة عمليات جراحية في رأسها. في 28 أيلول نقلها الصليب الأحمر الايطالي الى أحد مستشفيات إيطاليا حيث أمضت نحو سبعة أشهر خضعت خلالها لست عمليات جراحية. رافقت عليا ديب ابنتها الى ايطاليا في رحلة علاجها الطويل. بذل الأطباء ما بوسعهم لإيصال داليا إلى ما هو عليه اليوم حيث خضعت لعدة عمليات جراحية في الرأس بسبب ارتجاج الدماغ مما أفقدها النطق. وفي تموز2007 عادت داليا إلى منزل عائلتها في مسقط رأسها في بلدة البازورية في جنوب لبنان.

عادت داليا من إيطاليا حية لكن مُقعدة على كرسيّ، وتحملها والدتها بين ذراعيها لتنقلها من غرفة الى أخرى. وبعودتها تغير كل شيء في حياتها، تغيّرت تفاصيل حياتها اليومية، فلم تعد تلهو مع الأطفال، ولم تعد تصرخ أو تركض. فقدت داليا إمكانية النطق، لكنها تتعرف على والدتها ووالدها وعلى أخيها مصطفى وشقيقتها فاطمة وهما توأمان. ومن إيطاليا كان لا بد من متابعة العلاج في لبنان، وقرر الطبيب المشرف على علاجها تبني وضعها ومتابعتها.

على جدار في منزل عبد الله حسين وضعت صورة داليا قبل الحادثة بشعرها الاسود الطويل وعيناها السوداوين. حاليا، تلف داليا رأسها الصغير بمنديل يغطي شعرها القصير لتخفي اثار سلسلة العمليات الجراحية. ويوميا يقوم والدها باصطحابها الى عيادة خاصة في مدينة صور لمتابعة تمارين التأهيل. وفي المنزل تتابع داليا تمارينها على دراجة ثابتة وتحاول عبثا تحريك ساقيها.